Wednesday 18 November 2015

Loves Destroyer


Loves Destroyer,

When the green waves of jealousy begins to flow:

What drives us to give life to such a stirring emotion?

Jealousy is an emotion, and the word typically refers to the thoughts and feelings of insecurity.

Think about the thoughts we have when we feel jealous. Lurking behind the paranoia toward others, the criticisms toward a perceived third-party, reported speech, degrading, deforming ones character are often critical, harmful thoughts toward us.

 

Thoughts like, "He/she thinks that they are so smart?" can quickly turn into "He/she is so much prettier, handsome/thinner/more successful than me!" Actually we are the ones to manifest our worst fears, anxieties, anger, greed and hatred by allowing this green wave to consume us."

 

These critical inner voices and the feelings of humiliation that they foster can be more painful to us than the threat itself. This negative self - coaching accompanies us into our personal and professional relationships and instils in us a level of doubt and criticism that keeps us from perceiving ourselves as truly lovable.

Thus, life becomes fruitless, foiled and futile when you give birth to the green waves and nurture them lovingly.  The choice is an individual one. With love nn


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